Tue Feb 26, 2013 12:09 pm
Sun Hero wrote:rjm wrote:Sun Hero wrote:driving permit....church....religion....control parents....grown up man..... .22 ....... apologizing all the time....addiction.....broken relationship.....waning a girlfriend/relationship real bad...... anger control....is going on here....
IMO you need serious help / counseling Tony, from a professional. !!
Not everyone with disabilities can always be "Inspirational." Sometimes, it's just not easy - not a "feelgood story." Not everyone can smile through it, all the time. It's important to have friends.
You got friends, Tony.
rjm
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I think Tony has friends....and this is not for Tony as a person with a disability, but for Tony as a person.
Reading his old posts....from months ago, there is a pattern with his problems and anger. His parents are a big part in this and also Tony's ex-girlfriend.
I don't think that's friends only can help....a counselor will get to the core of the problem.
Tue Feb 26, 2013 12:43 pm
rjm wrote:Sun Hero wrote:rjm wrote:Sun Hero wrote:driving permit....church....religion....control parents....grown up man..... .22 ....... apologizing all the time....addiction.....broken relationship.....waning a girlfriend/relationship real bad...... anger control....is going on here....
IMO you need serious help / counseling Tony, from a professional. !!
Not everyone with disabilities can always be "Inspirational." Sometimes, it's just not easy - not a "feelgood story." Not everyone can smile through it, all the time. It's important to have friends.
You got friends, Tony.
rjm
Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I317 using Tapatalk 2
I think Tony has friends....and this is not for Tony as a person with a disability, but for Tony as a person.
Reading his old posts....from months ago, there is a pattern with his problems and anger. His parents are a big part in this and also Tony's ex-girlfriend.
I don't think that's friends only can help....a counselor will get to the core of the problem.
I take your point. It's just that some folks have bigger obstacles, and need some place to let off steam.
Since we're all Elvis-nerds, it's hard to offer advice; you know what I mean? We're not "average."
Anyway: Tony - seems like a family thing, really. That's never easy, but yes, there are family counselors. And I'm sure many of us here have availed ourselves of such services for one reason or another. (I tried a grief group once, but it didn't go well. Guess you have to shop around.)
rjm
Tue Feb 26, 2013 8:40 pm
promiseland wrote:rjm wrote:Sun Hero wrote:rjm wrote:Sun Hero wrote:driving permit....church....religion....control parents....grown up man..... .22 ....... apologizing all the time....addiction.....broken relationship.....waning a girlfriend/relationship real bad...... anger control....is going on here....
IMO you need serious help / counseling Tony, from a professional. !!
Not everyone with disabilities can always be "Inspirational." Sometimes, it's just not easy - not a "feelgood story." Not everyone can smile through it, all the time. It's important to have friends.
You got friends, Tony.
rjm
Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I317 using Tapatalk 2
I think Tony has friends....and this is not for Tony as a person with a disability, but for Tony as a person.
Reading his old posts....from months ago, there is a pattern with his problems and anger. His parents are a big part in this and also Tony's ex-girlfriend.
I don't think that's friends only can help....a counselor will get to the core of the problem.
I take your point. It's just that some folks have bigger obstacles, and need some place to let off steam.
Since we're all Elvis-nerds, it's hard to offer advice; you know what I mean? We're not "average."
Anyway: Tony - seems like a family thing, really. That's never easy, but yes, there are family counselors. And I'm sure many of us here have availed ourselves of such services for one reason or another. (I tried a grief group once, but it didn't go well. Guess you have to shop around.)
rjm
The main thing is Tony got what he wanted, and that's what matters.
Now just get that ride pimped Tony, and the babes will be cruisin' with ya!
Tue Feb 26, 2013 9:03 pm
Tony Trout wrote:promiseland wrote:rjm wrote:Sun Hero wrote:rjm wrote:Sun Hero wrote:driving permit....church....religion....control parents....grown up man..... .22 ....... apologizing all the time....addiction.....broken relationship.....waning a girlfriend/relationship real bad...... anger control....is going on here....
IMO you need serious help / counseling Tony, from a professional. !!
Not everyone with disabilities can always be "Inspirational." Sometimes, it's just not easy - not a "feelgood story." Not everyone can smile through it, all the time. It's important to have friends.
You got friends, Tony.
rjm
Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I317 using Tapatalk 2
I think Tony has friends....and this is not for Tony as a person with a disability, but for Tony as a person.
Reading his old posts....from months ago, there is a pattern with his problems and anger. His parents are a big part in this and also Tony's ex-girlfriend.
I don't think that's friends only can help....a counselor will get to the core of the problem.
I take your point. It's just that some folks have bigger obstacles, and need some place to let off steam.
Since we're all Elvis-nerds, it's hard to offer advice; you know what I mean? We're not "average."
Anyway: Tony - seems like a family thing, really. That's never easy, but yes, there are family counselors. And I'm sure many of us here have availed ourselves of such services for one reason or another. (I tried a grief group once, but it didn't go well. Guess you have to shop around.)
rjm
The main thing is Tony got what he wanted, and that's what matters.
Now just get that ride pimped Tony, and the babes will be cruisin' with ya!
THANK YOU!!! FINALLY SOMEONE HAS SOMETHING GOOD TO SAY AND DOESN'T JUMP DOWN MY DAMN THROAT!!!
As far as "real" friends here? I can only count on one hand how many real friends I have here....I think that should tell you something....
Tue Feb 26, 2013 9:40 pm
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Wed Feb 27, 2013 1:15 pm
Francesc wrote:If you don't have friends here, why do you post all these personal messages then ? You are getting worse and sound like a little baby, no wonder you r mother is ruling you
Wed Feb 27, 2013 8:35 pm
Tony Trout wrote:As far as "real" friends here? I can only count on one hand how many real friends I have here....I think that should tell you something....
Thu Feb 28, 2013 6:00 am
TCB-FAN wrote:Tony Trout wrote:As far as "real" friends here? I can only count on one hand how many real friends I have here....I think that should tell you something....
Were you Allen Damron in a previous life ? Just curious.
Thu Feb 28, 2013 9:19 am
promiseland wrote:Francesc wrote:If you don't have friends here, why do you post all these personal messages then ? You are getting worse and sound like a little baby, no wonder you r mother is ruling you
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Fri Mar 01, 2013 8:33 am
Tony Trout wrote:Ladies & Gentlemen of FECC:
I'm once again sorry for coming across as brash here lately...it's just that I do, in fact, have a lot going on in my life...right now I'm just very discouraged about some issues...I'm feeling overlooked regarding the talent I have and not being able to use that talent (I've not played any music anywhere except here at home for over a year - I miss playing out on the weekends).
To all that I have offended, I'm truly very sorry. I didn't come here to make enemies - I came here to make friends because, in reality, I don't really have a lot of friends in my own life. Why? I feel like they shun me because of my disability. The only friends I do have are my biological family and the friends I've made on the internet.
I hope and pray that you all will forgive me for my little outbursts here as of late...
Fri Mar 01, 2013 11:09 am
Tony Trout wrote:Ladies & Gentlemen of FECC:
I'm once again sorry for coming across as brash here lately...it's just that I do, in fact, have a lot going on in my life...right now I'm just very discouraged about some issues...I'm feeling overlooked regarding the talent I have and not being able to use that talent (I've not played any music anywhere except here at home for over a year - I miss playing out on the weekends).
To all that I have offended, I'm truly very sorry. I didn't come here to make enemies - I came here to make friends because, in reality, I don't really have a lot of friends in my own life. Why? I feel like they shun me because of my disability. The only friends I do have are my biological family and the friends I've made on the internet.
I hope and pray that you all will forgive me for my little outbursts here as of late...
Fri Mar 01, 2013 1:25 pm
Tony Trout wrote:
I hope and pray that you all will forgive me for my little outbursts here as of late...
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