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Tue Nov 20, 2012 12:11 am
Elvisgirl wrote:i use my real name and location and birth date...and i both accept and send friend request to strangers
i've had my account suspended twice, once for using a false name, and once for putting the wrong birth date...so i don't really have a choice...i have to use the real ones
i have hidden my email address...and i would never put my phone number or address on there
Tue Nov 20, 2012 12:26 am
Elvisgirl wrote:i use my real name and location and birth date...and i both accept and send friend request to strangers
i've had my account suspended twice, once for using a false name, and once for putting the wrong birth date...so i don't really have a choice...i have to use the real ones
i have hidden my email address...and i would never put my phone number or address on there
Tue Nov 20, 2012 1:22 am
Tue Nov 20, 2012 1:33 am
debtd1 wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:i use my real name and location and birth date...and i both accept and send friend request to strangers
i've had my account suspended twice, once for using a false name, and once for putting the wrong birth date...so i don't really have a choice...i have to use the real ones
i have hidden my email address...and i would never put my phone number or address on there
how have they found out you've got a false surname?
Tue Nov 20, 2012 1:36 am
rjm wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:i use my real name and location and birth date...and i both accept and send friend request to strangers
i've had my account suspended twice, once for using a false name, and once for putting the wrong birth date...so i don't really have a choice...i have to use the real ones
i have hidden my email address...and i would never put my phone number or address on there
Well, there are different "kinds" of birthdates: there's the one you give Facebook when you sign up, and that has to be real, or they get really annoyed. (Advertising demographics!) THEY want to know that, for certain. But once you're in, you don't have to tell your birthdate to the world. I just wish they'd let put the date in public without the precise year. A woman's prerogative, you know? (Heck, it's very guessable!) That way, people can know your birthday, but you don't have to surrender the prerogative.
One hopes that Facebook security is good, with the info they have that you have chosen to keep "private." They never ask your street address, officially. You can provide it, but that would not be wise at all.
Also, when on vacation, save the photos to your device, or better, to a cloud, but do NOT upload to Facebook until you return. On the other hand, DO keep the posts coming: vague status updates about the news of the day, "like" a lot of your friend's posts, comment on them, etc. (Sharing doesn't seem to work on mobile, although maybe you can go to the full site and share there.) Make it "look" like you are home. You DO have an audience of a billion people! It's not a cozy little "club" like we have here.
I have already told you when I'm leaving and when I return, and I'll send "live" pictures and updates, and so on; that's fun. If my house gets broken into, I kinda know who did it!{JUST KIDDING!} But on Facebook, there are 1000s, maybe, of "friends of friends," and you don't want to post that you're out of town. Or "check in" from a distant airport. Or "check in" at all! Don't do that unless you are close to home. It's like handing the crooks the keys to your house. ("I'm 3,000 miles from home. Welcome!") I'm sure they're all over Facebook.
So, it's the little things like that. A friend of mine went off for the whole holiday season, and told where he was going and when! (And though he didn't put out his street address, you do a quick 'net search, and it's yours.) And since he posts constantly when home, people know he's away, far away. (He has over 500 friends, many of whom have over 500 friends . . . ) It's a mistake to do that; keep it looking "normal" when you leave town. On your return, put up new albums, videos, Smileboxes! But do that when you get back. This is for Facebook, of course, not our little digs here. I told y'all everything last year, even posting from the airport, and everything was fine. (And so many people were kind enough to share their Memphis journeys this past Tribute Week. Just don't do it on Facebook.)
rjm
P.S. -- To answer the question about how they find out: they do their own searches, AND they have even demanded that friends rat their friends out! Seriously.
Tue Nov 20, 2012 11:01 am
intheghetto wrote:Ladies & Gentlemen-
This is why I AM NOT part of the Facebook community. When this trend first started I was astounded at how many, apparently millions or maybe billions of people were that willing to divulge personal information and not know where it's being stored or who sees it. When I tell people that I'm not on Facebook they look at me like I have two heads. IMO my life existed without Facebook before, it can continue to exist without it now.

Tue Nov 20, 2012 1:58 pm
rjm wrote:
That's funny. Two heads. It's true, though, once you're in it, it's a total magnet. You check it first thing in the AM, and pretty much last thing at night (well, FECC is usually my very last thing, when I'm going to sleep - FB doesn't play well on a Kindle). That's why people look at you like that; it becomes interwoven into the fabric of life
rjm
Tue Nov 20, 2012 8:45 pm
rjm wrote:intheghetto wrote:And it's true that you can't just cancel your account, because they keep all the data; it's precious. It's money.
You can check out; but you can never leave.
Your Forever "Friend":
rjm
Wed Nov 21, 2012 12:35 am
Wed Nov 21, 2012 1:06 am
MB280E wrote:I´m satisfied as long as I can poke Elvisgirl on Facebook! I think it keeps her satisfied too
Sincerely MB280E
Wed Nov 21, 2012 1:10 am
intheghetto wrote:Ladies & Gentlemen-
This is why I AM NOT part of the Facebook community. When this trend first started I was astounded at how many, apparently millions or maybe billions of people were that willing to divulge personal information and not know where it's being stored or who sees it. When I tell people that I'm not on Facebook they look at me like I have two heads. IMO my life existed without Facebook before, it can continue to exist without it now.
Wed Nov 21, 2012 1:16 am
Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:I´m satisfied as long as I can poke Elvisgirl on Facebook! I think it keeps her satisfied too
Sincerely MB280E
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Wed Nov 21, 2012 3:50 am
MB280E wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:I´m satisfied as long as I can poke Elvisgirl on Facebook! I think it keeps her satisfied too
Sincerely MB280E
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Wed Nov 21, 2012 7:52 pm
Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:I´m satisfied as long as I can poke Elvisgirl on Facebook! I think it keeps her satisfied too
Sincerely MB280E
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Sincerely MB280E
what can i say, i love it when you poke me
Wed Nov 21, 2012 8:08 pm
debtd1 wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:I´m satisfied as long as I can poke Elvisgirl on Facebook! I think it keeps her satisfied too
Sincerely MB280E
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Sincerely MB280E
what can i say, i love it when you poke me
I'd delete that before the Doc sees it...............lol
Wed Nov 21, 2012 10:30 pm
Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:I´m satisfied as long as I can poke Elvisgirl on Facebook! I think it keeps her satisfied too
Sincerely MB280E
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Sincerely MB280E
what can i say, i love it when you poke me
Thu Nov 22, 2012 9:47 am
Thu Nov 22, 2012 2:06 pm
MB280E wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:I´m satisfied as long as I can poke Elvisgirl on Facebook! I think it keeps her satisfied too
Sincerely MB280E
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Sincerely MB280E
what can i say, i love it when you poke me
And I´m there to please you! Anyway you want me, that´s how I´ll be![]()
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Sincerely MB280E
Thu Nov 22, 2012 4:16 pm
BrianTCB wrote:This is exactly why my Facebook account is friends only, and why I am selective in adding people.
Thu Nov 22, 2012 6:06 pm
Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:Elvisgirl wrote:MB280E wrote:I´m satisfied as long as I can poke Elvisgirl on Facebook! I think it keeps her satisfied too
Sincerely MB280E
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Sincerely MB280E
what can i say, i love it when you poke me
And I´m there to please you! Anyway you want me, that´s how I´ll be![]()
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Sincerely MB280E
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