poormadpeter wrote:Really and truly, the suggestion of the person in question being bullied is just laughable, considering how he has behaved on here. And you know that as well as anyone; you're not blind or daft.
The fact that you write "the guys involved are going to pointlessly continue to go about their ways, cheering each other on in order to bring some semblance of meaning and joy to their internet lives" is also rather ironic, bearing in mind that the same thing can be said about the writer of the liner notes and his followers on here. The double standard you are presenting is laughable and ridiculous - and anyone who has kicked around here for more than a few months will know that.
As for me "defending" things, I'm not defending anyone particularly. What is ridiculous is that a few lines that make a few critical comments about some liner notes have been blown out of all proportion, particularly by yourself. It wouldn't be so bad if you had actually countered the comments by suggesting how the notes in question are better than Piers suggests in his review, but you haven't. Nor have you said that, actually, writers in the past have listed their qualifications underneath their names on liner notes. You suggest they are "tongue in cheek" but, ironically, the only way anyone would even think that is by realising who the FECC alter ego of the writer was in the first place, and by being privy to his "humour".
Unbelievable.
Have at it, you're willfully ignoring the deeper issue here, peoples right to privacy and the unhinged dynamic that walk all over that as a power play in the small Elvis forum world that you yourself have kept company with elsewhere. You know it stinks, I cannot imagine you of all people thinking otherwise.
Bullying is bullying. Posting home addresses online is bullying. Posting the names of family members online is bullying. Pulling family photographs found from digital cyber stalking, digitally defacing them and posting them online with grotesque taglines is bullying. Making personal threats out of such information is bullying.
It doesn't matter what the target in question wrote before on FECC, or what they do elsewhere. Really, it doesn't. When a line is crossed that it gravitates to such disturbing behaviour there is a problem that should be discouraged, not applauded or excused.
I've recall reading things like "I know where he works, I've seen him, but I've not gone up to him" responded with "I would, you should!"
Good grief! What deranged people!
Do you not see how this stuff is disturbing? That it should be trampled down? I seem to recall you having a scare last year in this vein, that you had to file a police report over so it deeply surprises me how blasé you're being about such things. What Piers did is minor in comparison, but it sits under the same ultimate umbrella, and stems from the same distasteful core.
The review should have focused on the product at hand, with an unbiased mind not bent on oneupmanship and revenge. It didn't (and this has been confirmed to me separately).
Whatever, I've said my piece and I'm not arguing with you anymore about it.
I'm am sorry you've decided to use this issue as an excuse to seemingly argue for the sake of arguing again, considering the delicacy of the real issue at play.
Go for gold.