Fri Dec 31, 2010 5:49 pm
vbgt wrote:chris j wrote:"Nothing but a junkie" - how can such a comment ever be justified? In my opinion this board does Elvis a great injustice on many many occasions, and probably considerable damage. I'd like to see some other good-hearted and informed people come to his aid at this point, unless we want outsiders and visitors to think that the above comment is valid and an appropriate summary.
Sometimes the truth hurts,eh? But it's still the truth.
Fri Dec 31, 2010 5:57 pm
James27 wrote:There's only one other male entertainer, whether one likes him or not, that in his prime can be compared to Elvis in terms of hysteria, pressure and sheer success and that is Michael Jackson. The Beatles, yes, but they s-h-a-r-e-d all the succes with the other Beatles and John struggled alot with alcohol, acid and heroin in the 60s and 70s. Ringo became an alcoholic and George did drugs as well. Paul regularly used cocain, tried heroine, and of course did marijuana like the other Beatles. He also had/has little-known bouts of drinking and aggression.
Jackson of course was a full-blown "junkie" too, addicted to prescribed medications and pain-killers.
So Elvis is not an exception, at all. What does that teach us ? Perhaps that a human being isn't made to experience such success and pressure. Something's gotta give sometime, ya know.
Fri Dec 31, 2010 8:06 pm
Joe Car wrote:The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me...
Fri Dec 31, 2010 9:45 pm
Fri Dec 31, 2010 10:15 pm
Joe Car wrote:Really a classless post if you ask me! The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me, yet you don't mention that!
Fri Dec 31, 2010 10:31 pm
shawn wrote:Joe Car wrote:Really a classless post if you ask me! The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me, yet you don't mention that!
I've always said this. To have a "friend" that taped your conversation would hurt !! {Plus writing a book } Elvis must have thought no one really did care about him. I had a "friend" kind of like that. {Though no recorded phone conversation; } I helped her get a job and loaned her money. When it came to some personal issues in my life, she stood with the person that I was having problems with. {He employed her} So, yes. I can understand how that must have hurt Elvis . Thankfully, I got over it, but it was a long time before I ever trusted anyone again.
Fri Dec 31, 2010 10:41 pm
Xaykev wrote:In my opinion you have to look at Elvis' history, his whole life, and not just his years as a world class performer and artist. Look at his background, the history of his relatives and family. In all honesty,
Fri Dec 31, 2010 10:53 pm
Xaykev wrote:The Elvis and West situation is not that comparable to your situation with your "friend", is it? I mean, Elvis did his mistakes in his relationship with Red, something he admits in the phone conversation. In your situation, it doesn't seem you did anything wrong, except trusting a so-called friend.
And remember, if Elvis didn't die on 16th of August, he might have admitted the following tour that he had problems with drugs. He told Billy Smith that if the crowd booed him, that was something he considered. It would have been a huge step in the right direction. And if that happened the West's would have getting credit for having the balls to do something about Elvis' drug dependency.
Fri Dec 31, 2010 10:57 pm
midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me...
Certainly Red had his reasons, and if you were in his same circumstances in 1976, perhaps you would have done the same thing....
Fri Dec 31, 2010 11:16 pm
Xaykev wrote:shawn wrote:Joe Car wrote:Really a classless post if you ask me! The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me, yet you don't mention that!
I've always said this. To have a "friend" that taped your conversation would hurt !! {Plus writing a book } Elvis must have thought no one really did care about him. I had a "friend" kind of like that. {Though no recorded phone conversation; } I helped her get a job and loaned her money. When it came to some personal issues in my life, she stood with the person that I was having problems with. {He employed her} So, yes. I can understand how that must have hurt Elvis . Thankfully, I got over it, but it was a long time before I ever trusted anyone again.
The Elvis and West situation is not that comparable to your situation with your "friend", is it? I mean, Elvis did his mistakes in his relationship with Red, something he admits in the phone conversation. In your situation, it doesn't seem you did anything wrong, except trusting a so-called friend.
And remember, if Elvis didn't die on 16th of August, he might have admitted the following tour that he had problems with drugs. He told Billy Smith that if the crowd booed him, that was something he considered. It would have been a huge step in the right direction. And if that happened the West's would have getting credit for having the balls to do something about Elvis' drug dependency.
Fri Dec 31, 2010 11:18 pm
Xaykev wrote:In my opinion you have to look at Elvis' history, his whole life, and not just his years as a world class performer and artist. Look at his background, the history of his relatives and family. In all honesty, I think Elvis Presley would be in trouble if he was just a regular guy in Memphis - or the biggest star of this world. He seemed like a insecure person, a very sensitive person, who acted to be very confident. Yes, he knew he was a great singer and the best-looking guy on the planet, but that was it. Look at his family, all the tragedy and dependency on alcohol through the years - Elvis had the same blood, it just happened to be that he had an enormous talent too. He didn't have the best genes either, several of his relatives died pretty young - and I seriously doubt that Elvis would get very old no matter what. Of course, if he had lead a healthy life, that would have helped, but I have a hard time believing that he would be 70+ years old. Elvis was under stress since he was the superstar that he was, but seriously, how many bothered him when he stayed in Memphis? Didn't he go out for his regular rounds in Memphis without being mobbed too much? Some people usually hang outside Graceland to get a look at him, and some probably followed him at a distance, but it wasn't any worse than many stars experience today. At least that's my opinion about it, maybe I'm wrong. Yes, Elvis went through a divorce (with a woman he didn't want to marry), he had som health issues (nothing major), his career was still doing relatively good, had some money problems, but nothing he couldn't turn around. Why all the depression the last years? Because of his mental state which caused his drug-abuse to get out of control. And that happened because of who he was - his genes - his history. I don't want to sound negative or anything, I really think Elvis was a caring, good guy at heart. But if Elvis didn't become the superstar that he turned out to be, I think he would have been troubled anyway. People seem to believe the myth that Elvis would been driving a truck in Memphis, having a great time, without the pressure of being a star. But I believe he was happy to be who he was, he loved being Elvis Presley. And he would eventually having problems if he just was the regular guy living a simple life in Memphis. Maybe he wouldn't have been addictive to drugs, he wouldn't have the supplies he had as a superstar. But maybe alcohol would have caused him a lot of problems, like with several others in his family, who knows. The reason Elvis didn't drink too much alcohol was probably because of all the bad stuff he saw happened to others in his family. And when he could do drugs, prescribed by doctors, he really never had to touch it himself. If we should understand Elvis we can't just blame it on doing so-so movies in the 60s and not doing a world tour in '74.
My thoughts.
Fri Dec 31, 2010 11:28 pm
Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me...
Certainly Red had his reasons, and if you were in his same circumstances in 1976, perhaps you would have done the same thing....
I doubt it.
Fri Dec 31, 2010 11:35 pm
midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me...
Certainly Red had his reasons, and if you were in his same circumstances in 1976, perhaps you would have done the same thing....
I doubt it.
A close friend has his father fire you and shortly thereafter you are unemployed and in financial ruin. You question the motives of the person on the phone and feel the need to record it for various reasons including your own records or even to use it for legal purposes. Not too hard to understand the need to record under the circumstances of 1976. Glad you are able to continue viewing it through the eyes of a blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic. If you felt you were unjustly fired and treated by a friend and former employer, are you certain you would not go to certain lengths to protect your interests?
Fri Dec 31, 2010 11:47 pm
midnightx wrote:A close friend has his father fire you and shortly thereafter you are unemployed and in financial ruin. You question the motives of the person on the phone and feel the need to record it for various reasons including your own records or even to use it for legal purposes. Not too hard to understand the need to record under the circumstances of 1976. Glad you are able to continue viewing it through the eyes of a blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic. If you felt you were unjustly fired and treated by a friend and former employer, are you certain you would not go to certain lengths to protect your interests?
Sat Jan 01, 2011 12:14 am
Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me...
Certainly Red had his reasons, and if you were in his same circumstances in 1976, perhaps you would have done the same thing....
I doubt it.
A close friend has his father fire you and shortly thereafter you are unemployed and in financial ruin. You question the motives of the person on the phone and feel the need to record it for various reasons including your own records or even to use it for legal purposes. Not too hard to understand the need to record under the circumstances of 1976. Glad you are able to continue viewing it through the eyes of a blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic. If you felt you were unjustly fired and treated by a friend and former employer, are you certain you would not go to certain lengths to protect your interests?
So somebody has to be a "blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic" to think that tape-recording a phone conversation is underhanded! C'mon x, snap out of it!
Sat Jan 01, 2011 12:48 am
midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me...
Certainly Red had his reasons, and if you were in his same circumstances in 1976, perhaps you would have done the same thing....
I doubt it.
A close friend has his father fire you and shortly thereafter you are unemployed and in financial ruin. You question the motives of the person on the phone and feel the need to record it for various reasons including your own records or even to use it for legal purposes. Not too hard to understand the need to record under the circumstances of 1976. Glad you are able to continue viewing it through the eyes of a blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic. If you felt you were unjustly fired and treated by a friend and former employer, are you certain you would not go to certain lengths to protect your interests?
So somebody has to be a "blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic" to think that tape-recording a phone conversation is underhanded! C'mon x, snap out of it!
No. Under those circumstances, Red had no idea what would transpire during the course of the conversation, but knowing things were quite strained and that Elvis had a history of acting irrationally, perhaps Red thought it was best to record the conversation in the event his life was threatened, or if some other crazy scenario was lodged his way. My point has been that many here are unable to distance themselves from the fact that their hero Elvis is involved in this scenario. Objectively looking at a very tense and complicated set of circumstances, many people would consider taping a possible problematic, threatening, and incriminating conversation.
Sat Jan 01, 2011 12:57 am
Sat Jan 01, 2011 12:58 am
ekenee wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me...
Certainly Red had his reasons, and if you were in his same circumstances in 1976, perhaps you would have done the same thing....
I doubt it.
A close friend has his father fire you and shortly thereafter you are unemployed and in financial ruin. You question the motives of the person on the phone and feel the need to record it for various reasons including your own records or even to use it for legal purposes. Not too hard to understand the need to record under the circumstances of 1976. Glad you are able to continue viewing it through the eyes of a blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic. If you felt you were unjustly fired and treated by a friend and former employer, are you certain you would not go to certain lengths to protect your interests?
So somebody has to be a "blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic" to think that tape-recording a phone conversation is underhanded! C'mon x, snap out of it!
No. Under those circumstances, Red had no idea what would transpire during the course of the conversation, but knowing things were quite strained and that Elvis had a history of acting irrationally, perhaps Red thought it was best to record the conversation in the event his life was threatened, or if some other crazy scenario was lodged his way. My point has been that many here are unable to distance themselves from the fact that their hero Elvis is involved in this scenario. Objectively looking at a very tense and complicated set of circumstances, many people would consider taping a possible problematic, threatening, and incriminating conversation.
So, say you own a business. It's called the Elvis Presley business.
And an employee is costing that business thousands of dollars because of law suits, is that
employer justified in firing that employee?
Sat Jan 01, 2011 1:48 am
midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me...
Certainly Red had his reasons, and if you were in his same circumstances in 1976, perhaps you would have done the same thing....
Sat Jan 01, 2011 2:51 am
shawn wrote:Joe Car wrote:Really a classless post if you ask me! The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me, yet you don't mention that!
I've always said this. To have a "friend" that taped your conversation would hurt !! {Plus writing a book } Elvis must have thought no one really did care about him. I had a "friend" kind of like that. {Though no recorded phone conversation; } I helped her get a job and loaned her money. When it came to some personal issues in my life, she stood with the person that I was having problems with. {He employed her} So, yes. I can understand how that must have hurt Elvis . Thankfully, I got over it, but it was a long time before I ever trusted anyone again.
Sat Jan 01, 2011 3:37 am
Sat Jan 01, 2011 4:28 am
midnightx wrote:ekenee wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me...
Certainly Red had his reasons, and if you were in his same circumstances in 1976, perhaps you would have done the same thing....
I doubt it.
A close friend has his father fire you and shortly thereafter you are unemployed and in financial ruin. You question the motives of the person on the phone and feel the need to record it for various reasons including your own records or even to use it for legal purposes. Not too hard to understand the need to record under the circumstances of 1976. Glad you are able to continue viewing it through the eyes of a blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic. If you felt you were unjustly fired and treated by a friend and former employer, are you certain you would not go to certain lengths to protect your interests?
So somebody has to be a "blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic" to think that tape-recording a phone conversation is underhanded! C'mon x, snap out of it!
No. Under those circumstances, Red had no idea what would transpire during the course of the conversation, but knowing things were quite strained and that Elvis had a history of acting irrationally, perhaps Red thought it was best to record the conversation in the event his life was threatened, or if some other crazy scenario was lodged his way. My point has been that many here are unable to distance themselves from the fact that their hero Elvis is involved in this scenario. Objectively looking at a very tense and complicated set of circumstances, many people would consider taping a possible problematic, threatening, and incriminating conversation.
So, say you own a business. It's called the Elvis Presley business.
And an employee is costing that business thousands of dollars because of law suits, is that
employer justified in firing that employee?
Is it that simple? Is the employee personally responsible or is the person acting under the scope of his employment as a "body guard" or member of a "security team"? What are the details of the complaints by the plaintiffs? Are there legitimate complaints by the plaintiffs? Does the employee have a contract? Is the employee self-employed? Does the employee have a severance package and no-compete clause? What state does this firing take place in -- meaning is the employee an "at-will" employee meaning the employee can be fired for any reason?
Sat Jan 01, 2011 5:13 am
ekenee wrote:midnightx wrote:ekenee wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:midnightx wrote:Joe Car wrote:The fact that Red West is tape recording his conversation with Elvis is worse if you ask me...
Certainly Red had his reasons, and if you were in his same circumstances in 1976, perhaps you would have done the same thing....
I doubt it.
A close friend has his father fire you and shortly thereafter you are unemployed and in financial ruin. You question the motives of the person on the phone and feel the need to record it for various reasons including your own records or even to use it for legal purposes. Not too hard to understand the need to record under the circumstances of 1976. Glad you are able to continue viewing it through the eyes of a blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic. If you felt you were unjustly fired and treated by a friend and former employer, are you certain you would not go to certain lengths to protect your interests?
So somebody has to be a "blindly-devoted Elvis fanatic" to think that tape-recording a phone conversation is underhanded! C'mon x, snap out of it!
No. Under those circumstances, Red had no idea what would transpire during the course of the conversation, but knowing things were quite strained and that Elvis had a history of acting irrationally, perhaps Red thought it was best to record the conversation in the event his life was threatened, or if some other crazy scenario was lodged his way. My point has been that many here are unable to distance themselves from the fact that their hero Elvis is involved in this scenario. Objectively looking at a very tense and complicated set of circumstances, many people would consider taping a possible problematic, threatening, and incriminating conversation.
So, say you own a business. It's called the Elvis Presley business.
And an employee is costing that business thousands of dollars because of law suits, is that
employer justified in firing that employee?
Is it that simple? Is the employee personally responsible or is the person acting under the scope of his employment as a "body guard" or member of a "security team"? What are the details of the complaints by the plaintiffs? Are there legitimate complaints by the plaintiffs? Does the employee have a contract? Is the employee self-employed? Does the employee have a severance package and no-compete clause? What state does this firing take place in -- meaning is the employee an "at-will" employee meaning the employee can be fired for any reason?
No, its not that simple, so give Elvis some slack here.
I have given the West boys slack for the recording and the book, so Elvis deserves just as much.
We don't really know all the details involved here.
But Elvis must have thought that he was correct in his firing.
Also, Elvis gives a little clue as to his mind set.
He started to feel like a dollar sign to many in the group.
That is easy to do, as Elvis says, and over the years some resentment must have transpired.
Red resented the whole "wedding thing". And so forth.
By 1976 everything started to implode on Elvis.
It's too bad there wasn't more communication, as Elvis alludes to in the conversation,
because maybe the ordeal could have been avoided.
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