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Gregory Nolan Jr. wrote:I probably like the astute Geller even more,although some of his California spiritualism (as ridiculed by Goldman quite savagely) hasn't all aged well but he had the respect of Elvis so that's good enough for me. I read his "If I Can Dream: Elvis' Own Story" recently and really enjoyed it for the most part.
I was also was very impressed when I read his If I Can Dream book in the 80´s. Very impressed. I thought that was the truth. Just because that truth was to my liking. Unfortunately, that truth was not the truth. That I learned much later on. Geller is very pro Elvis, but it is not the truth. These fairytales should not be told, because we want to know the truth. At least some of us do. Elvis is much more exciting without these stupid make-believe stories.
Gregory Nolan Jr. wrote:As for Dave Hebler, the thing is, the guy wasn't around that long to have joined in the biblio-attack on Elvis, one that haunted his final days. In the big picture, he's a big zero in terms of having had the right to join in such a book. He's the least authentic of anyone in that '77 filmed press conference and seems most "out of place." At least the Wests had some long-earned credibility as long-time friends alarmed by Elvis' lifestyle and decline.
Hey, reading your posts, I know you are an intellectual guy. I love reading your contributions to this forum. But how come you can dismiss Dave Hebler so easily? You say that he is a big zero? Please, elaborate. Are you saying he should not have spoken his mind because he was not there since the 50´s? Just how many months he should have been there to speak his mind?




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E-Cat wrote:people whose word can be trusted: Red / Sonny West - LMP - Billy Smith - Joan Deary - Linda & Sam Thompson - Scotty - Gospel folks - Larry & Marty (95 %) - Jerry Weintraub - Loanne Parker

people who I take with a grain of salt: GK - Kathy W. - Fike - most ex girlfriends except Linda / Anita W - Hodge - Esposito - Sandi - Dr. Nick - Sam Philips

people I do not trust: donna presley - dee dee and kids - sillerman - goldman - Hebler - Grob - Jo Alden - Aunt Delta
I think Goldman and Dee Stanley should be in the catagory "Utterly Despicable."



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"The Fool" wrote:
Gregory Nolan Jr. wrote:I probably like the astute Geller even more,although some of his California spiritualism (as ridiculed by Goldman quite savagely) hasn't all aged well but he had the respect of Elvis so that's good enough for me. I read his "If I Can Dream: Elvis' Own Story" recently and really enjoyed it for the most part.
I was also was very impressed when I read his If I Can Dream book in the 80´s. Very impressed. I thought that was the truth. Just because that truth was to my liking. Unfortunately, that truth was not the truth. That I learned much later on. Geller is very pro Elvis, but it is not the truth. These fairytales should not be told, because we want to know the truth. At least some of us do. Elvis is much more exciting without these stupid make-believe stories.
Well, I've actually wanted to hear more feedback and bone up on the reactions to the book. I have my doubts in spots more than once but wanted to put it back to you: have Larry Geller's stories (even if fake, they don't strike me as "stupid") been entirely discredited? Where's the proof? Why does DJC, normally no one's "fool" when it comes to Elvis, speak highly of the book? Do tell on what has been revealed as falsehoods. I had some serious doubts in places, I have to admit.

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Gregory Nolan Jr. wrote:As for Dave Hebler, the thing is, the guy wasn't around that long to have joined in the biblio-attack on Elvis, one that haunted his final days. In the big picture, he's a big zero in terms of having had the right to join in such a book. He's the least authentic of anyone in that '77 filmed press conference and seems most "out of place." At least the Wests had some long-earned credibility as long-time friends alarmed by Elvis' lifestyle and decline.
Hey, reading your posts, I know you are an intellectual guy. I love reading your contributions to this forum. But how come you can dismiss Dave Hebler so easily? You say that he is a big zero? Please, elaborate. Are you saying he should not have spoken his mind because he was not there since the 50´s? Just how many months he should have been there to speak his mind?
Well, thanks for the kind compliment. It's admittedly an off-the-cuff comment and I hate to dismiss anyone I've never met and admittedly know little about. Perhaps I was too severe. I did read the book when I was eight or nine... when it came out :oops: :D

But the fact is that Hebler did arrive on the scene rather late and for a brief period at that. All the allegations that this was a " 'get rich quick' tell-all" would have been more apparent had not the more compelling input of the West cousins. Hebler remains a rather marginal figure in the the Presley story, save for his big claim to fame.

I just think before I write a book even about the homeless guy down the street in an alley, I'd better have known him for awhile before I trash him publically in a book. Even Elvis, who they claimed they wanted to "save," deserved the respect you'd give a drug addict in an alleyway.

As disgustingly out of it as Elvis was at the end, the notion that he owed Dave Hebler anything is a bit of a stretch. At least the Wests went back as long-time friends and were embittered in a way that makes more then a little sense.

His line in the press conference shown in "THIS IS ELVIS" strikes me as particularly hollow, the one about "just wanting to see Elvis back in the ring...knocking 'em dead.."

So you write a book with him with a now-infamous tabloid writer? When if it would humilate his 9-year old daughter? Is this how we communicate in this life, even with the famous?

When one is being paid to trash someone with a lewd and revealing story, such pius reasons for action ring demonstrably false.

Hebler, in my first read (again, not knowing much about him) is that his participation on the face of it comes off as inevitably opportunistic, no matter what he says. His comments in the film seem the least-heartelt or convincing.

I'm prepared to say otherwise if presented with more information. Tell it, people. :D


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Gregory Nolan Jr. wrote:Why does DJC, normally no one's "fool" when it comes to Elvis, speak highly of the book?
DJC is one of my heroes on this forum, so I would really like to hear his opinion of Geller´s book, too. And just as well, I´d really like to hear N880EP´s opinion. I know he´s grown tired of this forum, but I would really appreciate his opinion. He always gives the truth as he sees it, and this forum is alway better for it. Please, N880EP, please!
Gregory Nolan Jr. wrote:But the fact is that Hebler did arrive on the scene rather late and for a brief period at that...As disgustingly out of it as Elvis was at the end, the notion that he owed Dave Hebler anything is a bit of a stretch....For Hebler, my first read (again, not knowing much about him) is that his participation on the face of it comes off as opportunistic. His comments in the film seem the least heart felt or convincing.
Hebler was there from 1972 to 1976, almost four years. I would not call that a brief period... Who said that Elvis owed Hebler anything?... To me, Hebler always seemed opportunistic as well. Until I really started to think these things instead of just trusting "the truth". That is after I started thinking for myself and stopped blindly believing "the truth". Red and Sonny gave many eye-opening interviews. Everyone should watch their All The King´s Men video tapes. It is so obvious they still love Elvis very much. And that is the same feeling I got from Dave Hebler as well. Of course, I might be wrong.

As for Hebler´s comments "in the film"... I believe you are referring to This Is Elvis. Are his comments really any less heart felt or convincing as Sonny´s?



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That's a longer stint than I recall (especially in comparison), but Hebler just seems to be lower on the totem pole in terms of references, photos, etc. but I could be wrong.

I meant not that Elvis owed Hebler anything but that Hebler (assuming he wasn't pyschologically , physically or otherwise personally abused) owed his employer, Elvis (one of the best most of us could imagine, even in his later state) at least the loyalty, grace, and basic humanity to say, "hey, fellows, I'm not going to write a book about the guy -and if I did, I'll have to admit it was for the paycheck..:

I saw at least one VHS tape of ALL THE KING's MEN about six or seven years ago, rented from a local video joint and found it very moving, if tough to watch. Despite the betrayal of "ELVIS: WHAT HAPPENED?" (even Elvis was human enough to be hurt and humilated by it), I also sense the love they had for Elvis, no matter how unsuccessful the project was (in getting him to change) unless you count the financial windfall.

I wonder if they've all slept well over the years..? I agree : their interviews are also very interesting. I will read Sonny West's latest book (if only from the library) at one point to see what to make of it.

It's just my impression (and that of my brother when we saw it years ago) but it used to strike us that Hebler in THIS IS ELVIS seems the most stiff and least convincing. On resume alone, it's harder to buy into his own take on it, but perhaps he's just the lackluster one of the bunch. Even if they all still swear by the book, there's always a whiff of betrayal and disloyalty as long as money changed hands as it surely did. If they donated the profits of the book to, say, St. Jude's or some other charity, it would be another story.


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Promocollector wrote:
drjohncarpenter wrote: ColinB, you just lost the argument. Klein is nothing but a hack.
drjohncarpenter wrote: Nope. James tends to fabricate, or misremember. Take your pick.
Others mentioned that can't be believed are : Priscilla, Fike, Lacker , Esposito, Hodge and some others that have been mentioned over the past few years on this mb.

Is there anyone from Elvis' past that we can believe??

Do we trust the DOC, or do we trust Elvis' friends and collegues?
The next time you choose to scrutinize my comments, you better review more than two topics in the last two days.

Of the scores of people who knew Elvis and have put their words to print in biographies since August 16, 1977, these are -- more or less -- the memories worth your time and money:

Billy Smith
Marty Lacker
Lamar Fike
Alan Fortas
Scotty Moore
Red West
Sonny West
Jerry Schilling
June Juanico
Larry Geller
Ed Parker
Rex and Elizabeth Mansfield

That's the answer to your first question.

Trust the doc to provide clear, accurate answers to questions pertaining to Elvis Presley, the man and his music.

That's the answer to your second question.

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Mike Eder wrote:Finally while George, Charlie, Gene Smith, and Ed Parker chose not to venture into Elvis dark side, as a fellow human being I applaud them for it. Sure their books are not the entire picture but their respect for Elvis is unquestionable, I don't feel they were lying about Elvis, but merely keeping what he would have wanted to not share private.
If Gene Smith wrote about Elvis, that's one I missed. If you meant Billy Smith, he actually has spoken quite honestly, but respectfully, about his cousin.

As for those other folks, save Ed Parker, a sanitized look at a legendary figure might as well be a comic book -- as biography, it's nothing but wasted paper.


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I never ever believe anybody who sprouts someone else's private life into the public eye.
I never ever believe people who were fired telling things about their former boss.
I never ever believe people who are one-sided friends, who only take, never give.
As for Elvis' private life, I could not care less what he did in his own home and with whom. I rather buy a "recording sessions" book for € 100 than a "tell all to get even" for € 1.




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Rob wrote:
Promocollector wrote:What i am talking about here is that if George Klien tells me something about Elvis, should i believe what he tells me, after all he knew Elvis and i didn't.
Personally, I like George Klein. Do I believe everything he says? No.
However, hearing him on Sirius Satellite Radio nearly every day, he will utter nary a negative word about his friend. Nor have I ever heard him do this anywhere.

He has my respect.
George is a guy whom I respect and like also..sometimes he makes himself seem like he played a bigger role in Elvis' life than he actually did but still a good guy in my book. When you go about trying to see who is telling the truth and whos not, you just have to read as much as you can as someone already stated and watch as much documentaries and footage possible and decide for yourself...




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Greg, Hebler did hit a bullseye during that press conference when he said "How do you save a man from himself?"




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Pete Dube wrote:Greg, Hebler did hit a bullseye during that press conference when he said "How do you save a man from himself?"
did he win the caravan?




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drjohncarpenter wrote: Of the scores of people who knew Elvis and have put their words to print in biographies since August 16, 1977, these are -- more or less -- the memories worth your time and money.
In your opinion ...
drjohncarpenter wrote: Trust the doc to provide clear, accurate answers to questions pertaining to Elvis Presley, the man and his music.
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Who can we believe??

a good start is people who have no interest to lie

and one thought

musicians have generally a good memory
pro musicians can memorize 200 300 songs



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drjohncarpenter wrote:
Mike Eder wrote:Finally while George, Charlie, Gene Smith, and Ed Parker chose not to venture into Elvis dark side, as a fellow human being I applaud them for it. Sure their books are not the entire picture but their respect for Elvis is unquestionable, I don't feel they were lying about Elvis, but merely keeping what he would have wanted to not share private.
If Gene Smith wrote about Elvis, that's one I missed. If you meant Billy Smith, he actually has spoken quite honestly, but respectfully, about his cousin.

As for those other folks, save Ed Parker, a sanitized look at a legendary figure might as well be a comic book -- as biography, it's nothing but wasted paper.
Gene's book is pretty good. You would like the fifties tour stories that include some comical pranks on Col. Parker. It's called Elvis's Man Friday. That's how it's actually spelled out for some reason.

While I haven't read George's book yet, I do not claim his or Charlie's books are good as biography, Very few of these type of books (ie What Happened) are well organized. I do like Charlie's book purely for what it is, a collection of positive random memories. Especally because he did have more of an interest in the music then many others. For instance his telling of the preperation for the 1969 Vegas shows is very interesting reading.

I felt Billy has spoken fairly respectfully on some matters especally in the fifteen years after Elvis' death. Yet writing in Nash boo about Elvis' taste in porn was a little over the line. I think Red, Sonny, and Billy come off much better in All The Kings Men then they do in their books.


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Mike Eder wrote: It's called Elvis's Man Friday. That's how it's actually spelled out for some reason.
Why wouldn't it be spelled like that? Are you not familiar with the term Man Friday?




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Scott wrote:
Mike Eder wrote: It's called Elvis's Man Friday. That's how it's actually spelled out for some reason.
Why wouldn't it be spelled like that? Are you not familiar with the term Man Friday?
no :? whats it mean




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ben wrote:no :? whats it mean
Man Friday was the name given by Robinson Crusoe to the native he found on his island in the book by Daniel Defoe.

"Man Friday" is now part of the English language, and it means a "go-to guy" or a male personal assistant, or a male servant.

Hence, Elvis' Man Friday.

There was also a 1940 romantic comedy called His Girl Friday with Cary Grant and Rosalind Russell.




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Scott wrote:
ben wrote:no :? whats it mean
Man Friday was the name given by Robinson Crusoe to the native he found on his island in the book by Daniel Defoe.

"Man Friday" is now part of the English language, and it means a "go-to guy" or a male personal assistant, or a male servant.

Hence, Elvis' Man Friday.

There was also a 1940 romantic comedy called His Girl Friday with Cary Grant and Rosalind Russell.
so it means 'Elvis' male servant'??




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ben wrote: so it means 'Elvis' male servant'??
I presume that's what Gene meant by his title, yes, although I'd suggest he was leaning more towards the "assistant" meaning. I have not read the book.



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Two fleas on Robinson Crusoe.

One says "So long. I'll see you on Friday"


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ColinB wrote:Two fleas on Robinson Crusoe.

One says "So long. I'll see you on Friday"

Boom, tish!
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Pete Dube wrote:Greg, Hebler did hit a bullseye during that press conference when he said "How do you save a man from himself?"

That's true, and I'd forgotten that key assessment, but stand by my other comments.

"The Fool" wrote:
"...I was also was very impressed when I read his If I Can Dream book in the 80´s. Very impressed. I thought that was the truth. Just because that truth was to my liking. Unfortunately, that truth was not the truth. That I learned much later on. Geller is very pro Elvis, but it is not the truth. These fairytales should not be told, because we want to know the truth. At least some of us do. Elvis is much more exciting without these stupid make-believe stories...."
Doc Carpenter: what do you make of this fool's charge, I mean, the fool's charge, as shown above? :lol:

I find Geller quite believable in the videos and documentaries, and want to believe him but what is the consensus overall ? I'd like to believe the book is kosher. The overall sweep seems correct but some parts had me wondering -not including the few pages someone tore out of my library copy I signed out ! (I'll have to go and actually buy one for the ol' collection! :lol:



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Scott wrote:
ColinB wrote:Two fleas on Robinson Crusoe.

One says "So long. I'll see you on Friday"

Boom, tish!
:D
To which the other flea replies:

"Make it Tuesday Weld and we got a date"

The first flea says:

"Any day of the week will do - and don't call me Weld !"


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Gregory Nolan Jr. wrote:Your thoughts?
Larry Geller is not without flaws, both during his time with Presley and after. But his experiences are a valuable part of understanding Elvis' struggle to find himself.


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I pointed out the spelling of Gene's book because it says Elvis's not Elvis'. Still a good book despite that.


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